Tip #3: Connection Request Etiquette
The problem: You aren’t including a personalized message on your connection requests.
Why it matters: People are more likely to accept your request when they understand the reason behind it. Sending a clear message also starts your professional relationship on a genuine note!
How to write a connection request:
Keep it short and include:
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How you found them and/or what you have in common
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Why you want to connect (be specific)
Helpful templates:
Template 1: You share a research interest:
"Hi [Name], I came across your work on [specific topic/paper] and really appreciated your approach to [X]. I'm working on something similar in my PhD and would love to connect and follow your research."
Template 2: You met them at an event:
"Hi [Name], great meeting you at [Conference/Event]! Really enjoyed our conversation about [topic]. Would love to stay connected!"
After they accept: Don't go radio silent or immediately pitch them, asking for a job or favor. Engage authentically through thoughtful comments and sharing relevant resources. If you want to take it further, wait a week or two before asking for an informational chat.
Action item: This week, send 1–3 personalized connection requests to people whose work you admire or who are in roles you're interested in.
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